Heat 3 tbsp oil in a pan, add chopped bhindi/ lady's finger
saute it in low to medium flame for 10 minutes
Then take off the lady's finger (fried)
Add ½ tbsp of oil in the same pan, then add ½ cup chopped capsicum
saute it for 3 minutes and then collect it from the kadai, keep aside
For roasting and grinding:
In the same pan, add ½ tbsp of oil, heat it,
add chopped onion, 1-inch ginge,r 2 garlic. saute well
now add chopped tomato, saute well
After turning off the flame, add 1 tsp of poppy seed and 10 cashews
let this mixture to cool
transfer into a blender jar, blend it into a smooth paste with little water
For making Kadai bhindi:
Heat 2 tbsp of oil in a pan, add 1-inch cinnamon, 2 cloves, 2 cardamom, 1 tsp cumin
now add the ground paste, mix well in medium flame till it becomes half of the quantity (5 minutes)
Now add the spice powders. (3 tsp coriander powder, 2 tsp of Kashmiri red chili powder, ½ tsp of cumin powder, ½ tsp of garam masala powder, ¼ tsp of amchur powder, ¼ tsp of turmeric powder)mix well for 1 minute in medium flame